My (43m) husband thinks it’s funny to constantly slap me (43f) in the privates all day everyday. He sneaks up behind me and will stick his finger in my ass or slap my vagina. He does this in front of the kids. Once or twice is one thing but this is at least 10 times a day. Tonight I was in the shower washing my face and he came in and slapped my privates.He knows I don’t like it. I’ve told him. I also have bad hemorrhoids after having the kids so when he sticks his finger there it hurts! He knows this.

(Sorry for the tmi but I’m pissed). After the shower tonight I slapped him in the face. Not hard but hard enough to sting. His reaction was to punch me in the stomach and tell me he wants a divorce for hurting him. He’s never done that before and in my opinion wayyyy overreacted. After 11 years of marriage that was a first and he said I’m the AH. Meanwhile I’m ready to leave and take the kids tonight.I know his reaction was not okay but was I out of line? UPDATE: