By the time I hit six months, people stared at me like I was about to deliver a baby right there between the apples and canned soup. I couldn’t go anywhere without hearing, “Any day now?” followed by the kind of awkward laugh that made both of us feel uncomfortable. I’d fake a smile and say, “Still got a few months, actually,” and then watch their faces fall like I’d just told them I was carrying a small planet.

I knew I was big. But the looks, the whispers, the well-meaning questions started to feel less like curiosity and more like judgment. Like everyone assumed I was hiding twins, or lying about my due date, or that I spent every night eating ice cream out of the tub.

Even Aunt Lela, who I love dearly, pulled me aside at a family cookout and whispered, “Sweetheart, are you sure it’s just one in there?”

Yes, Aunt Lela. Just one. I’d seen the little guy on the screen myself—my jellybean, kicking up a storm like he had rent to pay. My OB said it was just extra fluid, nothing alarming. “Big but healthy,” she reassured me. But still. I could feel the eyes.

Then things got strange.

One day after prenatal yoga, this woman named Trina kept glancing at my bump like it might suddenly start talking. When class ended, she caught me in the parking lot and said, “You should get checked again. My friend looked like you, and…” She paused. “Just… do it. Please.”

That night, I couldn’t sleep. Her voice stuck with me, bouncing around my head like a loose marble. The next morning, I called my OB and asked if they had a last-minute opening. They squeezed me in for two days later.

I wish I could say that visit calmed me. But something happened during that scan I didn’t see coming.

Dr. Mahmoud, my regular OB, started the ultrasound with his usual warmth—asking about cravings, teasing me about waddling. But then he got quiet. Really quiet.

He moved the wand slowly, tilted the monitor, then leaned back and said, “Hold on. I want a second opinion.”

My stomach dropped. “Is something wrong?”

His smile tried to reassure me. “Probably not. I just want to be thorough.”

Ten minutes later, another doctor, Dr. Klara, came in. She was calm, focused. They both peered at the screen, speaking softly in that way doctors do when they don’t want to alarm you but also don’t want to lie.

Finally, Dr. Mahmoud turned toward me. “So… this is unusual. You’re still carrying one baby, but we see a mass. Likely a fibroid, probably benign. But it’s causing the uterus to stretch more than normal.”

“A mass?” I repeated. My throat tightened.

“It’s not uncommon,” he said gently. “A fibroid. Non-cancerous. But it’s quite large. That, combined with the excess amniotic fluid, explains the size of your belly.”

I nodded, pretending I understood. I left with a specialist referral and a crumpled printout in my hand, then sat in the car for twenty minutes, trying not to cry.

A few days later, the specialist confirmed it—one large fibroid, sitting awkwardly near the placenta. It wasn’t hurting the baby directly, but it was making monitoring difficult. Blocking certain views, reducing blood flow on one side. They wanted to keep a close watch. Weekly ultrasounds, stress tests, fluid checks.

From that point on, my pregnancy wasn’t just “big.” It was complicated. Medical. Monitored.

I stopped going to yoga. I avoided the grocery store. I didn’t want the stares. I didn’t want the questions. I just wanted to get through the day without feeling like a walking spectacle.

Then, one night, about seven weeks before my due date, I felt a deep cramp. Not sharp, not dramatic—just… relentless. I tried all the tricks: water, movement, lying on my left side. Nothing worked.

By midnight, I was in the hospital. Preterm labor.

Everything blurred after that—machines beeping, nurses moving quickly, my mom showing up with mismatched shoes. They managed to stop the labor, but warned me: next time, it might not wait.

For the next few weeks, I stayed horizontal. Couch, bed, repeat. I nested with frozen peas on my back and “comfort” TV playing endlessly in the background.

And then, on a quiet, rainy Tuesday morning, he arrived.

Five pounds, eleven ounces. A loud, defiant cry. A shock of dark hair. They had to do a C-section because of the fibroid’s placement, and recovery wasn’t easy. But holding him… nothing else mattered.

The fibroid? It shrank on its own. No surgery. No drama. Just gone.

But the one thing that stayed with me—far longer than the pain or the scar—was that feeling of being judged. The way strangers, friends, even family assumed they knew something I didn’t. That somehow, I wasn’t “doing pregnancy right.” That my body had become public domain.

If you ever see a pregnant woman with a bigger-than-expected belly, try something radical—say nothing. Or if you must say something, make it kind. Maybe ask how she’s feeling. Or better yet, just smile and keep going.

And if you’re her—if you’re the one feeling stretched in every sense of the word—know this: you are not alone. You don’t owe anyone explanations. But you do owe it to yourself to trust your gut. If something feels off, ask. Insist. Follow your instincts.

You know your body better than anyone else.

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