Fiancé Vanishes on Wedding Day Leaving Bride at the Altar — One Day She Gets a Message Request from Him

On what was supposed to be the happiest day of her life, a bride was left utterly crushed when her fiancé vanished without a trace, leaving her alone at the altar. The shocking disappearance came out of the blue, casting a dark shadow over their seemingly perfect relationship. One day, out of nowhere, she received a message request from him, shrouded in intrigue and unanswered questions.In July 2023, an anonymous female poster turned to the ‘Relationship Advice’ subreddit to share her bewildering story. Two years ago, the 28-year-old woman’s life took a harrowing turn when her fiancé, Derek, aged 32, vanished without a trace on the very morning of their wedding. “My [ex-fiancé] “Derek” disappeared the morning of our wedding 2 years ago,” she expressed.

Desperate calls and messages went unanswered, leaving her in a state of profound shock and heartbreak. The once-promised day of joy transformed into a surreal nightmare, leading her back to an empty apartment where, in her wedding dress, she found solace on the cold tiles of the bathroom floor, the stark contrast to the dreams of happiness now shattered.Why Did OP’s Fiancé Abandon Her at the Altar?The cruel twist in her story unfolded further when Derek’s mother tearfully revealed the painful truth: he had rekindled an old flame with his ex just days before the wedding, opting to abandon their love and commitment. The revelation was a brutal blow, leaving the bride in a whirlwind of emotions—anger, betrayal, and a devastating sense of abandonment.Amidst the uncertainty, she turned to the vast realm of the internet, seeking advice from faceless strangers, torn between the possibility of closure and the fear of reopening wounds that had barely begun to scar over.Months later, Derek resurfaced, his unexpected return only deepening the wounds he had left behind. “I didn’t hear from him until 3 months after he left. He called me, [apologized] and then revealed that his ex had been hiding his child from him that he just found out about, he wanted to be with them,” shared the woman.”That’s pretty much all that was said, I didn’t say much, actually I think I only said “hello”. The whole situation left me numb, I just didn’t care anymore,” added the heartbroken poster. However, with time, support from steadfast friends, and therapy, the young woman embarked on a grueling journey of self-discovery and healing.One year passed, marked by sleepless nights and tear-streaked days, until she found the strength to leave her past behind. Seeking solace in a new beginning, she made a life-altering decision, leaving her homeland in Australia for the distant shores of Wales, UK, hoping for a fresh start far away from the haunting memories of a love lost.An Unusual Message RequestIn an unexpected twist, Derek’s presence crept back into her life through a message on social media. The woman revealed, “Last night, I got a message request on [Instagram]; it was Derek. ‘Hey…’” I’ve heard you moved to Wales, that’s so cool, I’m [traveling] to Cardiff towards of the end of July. I’m deeply sorry about everything and I want to discuss what happened leading up to the wedding.”The fact that Derek knew her whereabouts sent shivers down her spine. His proposition hung in the air, laden with unanswered questions, forcing OP to confront a past she had painstakingly tried to forget. Amidst the uncertainty, she turned to the vast realm of the internet, seeking advice from faceless strangers, torn between the possibility of closure and the fear of reopening wounds that had barely begun to scar over.Finding ClosureIn her updates, the woman expressed surprise at the attention her story received and thanked everyone for their advice. Despite an old mutual friend revealing her new location to Derek, she chose to ignore her ex-fiancé’s message initially. Later, he apologized for the disingenuous tone of his first message and explained his actions.Despite his diagnosis of Avoidance PTSD, she couldn’t move past the uncertainty he left her in for three months. Nevertheless, she agreed to meet him. During their short lunch, he revealed he was no longer with his ex, who had passed away.He confirmed the child was his and handed her an envelope containing all the money spent on their wedding preparations. This encounter provided her with closure, affirming that she had moved on and freeing her from past feelings. She thanked everyone for their support and shared that she now felt liberated and ready to move forward.Comments from ReadersWhat do you think about this story? Do you feel OP was right to meet her ex-fiancé, or should she have ignored him? How would you react if you were in OP’s place?

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