When I returned from a medical conference, I found my husband, James, withdrawn and overwhelmed by caring for our newborn, Lily. Our marriage felt strained as he confessed, “I don’t know if I can do this. I feel trapped, Rachel.” His words hit hard; he had agreed to stay home while I continued my career as a neurologist. We had always prioritized my work. James, who earned less in marketing, had promised to care for Lily. Yet, he admitted,
“I didn’t realize how hard it would be.” I felt betrayed and angry, “You made a promise. You agreed to stay home and take care of our daughter.” The tension escalated until I decided we needed help. I introduced Claire, our new nanny. James resisted at first, but Claire’s support eased the burden, and James began to adjust. “She’s great with Lily. It’s making a difference,” he admitted. With Claire’s assistance, James found balance, even picking up freelance work.
