My 13-year-old granddaughter’s suitcase held a shocking surprise that made me question everything I thought I knew about her. As I grappled with what I found, and my own outdated expectations, I wondered: could I bridge the generational gap before it tore us apart?I was so excited to have Lily, my 13-year-old granddaughter, stay with us for the summer. She’d always been such a sweet kid, and I couldn’t wait to spend some quality time with her.When she arrived, she was bouncing off the walls with energy, running around the house like she used to when she was little. “Lily, honey, why don’t you go explore while I unpack for you?” I suggested, grabbing her suitcase.

“Thanks, Grandma!” she called over her shoulder, already halfway down the hall.I lugged the suitcase up to the guest room, smiling to myself. It’d be nice to have a young person around the house again. I unzipped the bag, expecting to find the usual stuff – you know, clothes, books, maybe that old teddy bear she loved so much. What I saw instead made me gasp. Right on top were these tiny little crop tops that looked more like handkerchiefs than shirts. And the shorts? They were so short they might as well have been underwear.I dug deeper, finding makeup, perfume, and even a pair of sky-high platform shoes. This couldn’t be right. Not my Lily. I sat on the bed, trying to process what I was seeing. After a few minutes, I knew I had to call Emily, my daughter. I dialed with shaky fingers.”Hey, Mom! How’s Lily settling in?” Emily answered cheerfully. “Emily, we need to talk,” I said, trying to keep my voice steady. “I found some things in Lily’s suitcase. Crop tops, short shorts, makeup —